Wondering Thoughts

Over the years, I have been known as Tess, Tessie, Tessa, Tressa, Ray's little sister, Ron's big sister, Sandy's big sister, Ryan's big sister, Teresa, Ray and Shirley's daughter, David's wife; Alecia, Brandon, Katie, Krystal, Bethany, Jared or Jessica's mom. It is interesting how often we are identified by the relationships we have. A while back I saw a little child at Wal-mart who asked if I was Jared and Jessica's Mom. Some my say that it is demoralizing. I say it is a blessing. I am known by those around me as someone who loves my family. I am associated with great people. My family is the most important aspect of my life. So when I am defined by them, I am happy to know that the world knows who I love!